I have only two (2) reasons for this date blog: to answer and to clear all those who asked through texts, PM's and even those who wrote their comments here which i never approved (i ask for your forgiveness :) ) and to prove to myself that I can deal with the pain.
Okay. Friendship is the need of every person on earth. Friendship is the pure and precious relationship between two people. And they said, It is the long lasting relationship which never ends. And back then, whenever people asked me of whom my best friend was, i abruptly answered "none". Tim wasn't a best friend for he was the best of best friends, for me. So if ever, there's a word beyond best friend, i would refer that for Tim. He's more than a best friend, more than a brother, he's more than yet we're less than a lover . Best friend and more than a best friend in a-not-romantically-thinking are two different things for me. He's the peak of the subject.
"Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver, the other is gold." is the most memorable line i heard from my uncle WIll. "Remember the first stanza in a classic song we sang as children"?, my good friend Aisa asked me then during our high school years. The song goes like "I am your friend and so you're mine. I will never ask you to forget me, so please don't ask", and I got emotional when i sang the song. :( . Friendships are truly one of life's truest treasures. But what if, the person whom you consider as closest and you trusted the most appealed na sana, wag mo na syang gawing most important man/woman of your life? What would you feel? What would you think? Well, life's like that. My life's like this. There is no constant in this world but change and for you to have a good deal with life, you have to simply deal with the different changes. One of that changes; the people who surrounds you, your friends. As what I've said, life's like that. Deal with it, no matter how painful it might be. Every dark cloud has it's silver lining. Don't be afraid to stand alone if that's the way it has to be. :) Don't be frightened to say "Hi" or "Hello" to others who are unknown to you. Sometimes, strangers can make us smile, they can make our day. So, reach out today and connect with others, get out of your comfort zone and go somewhere to meet new people. There just might be a new friendship lurking there. Basta, ah, if you're already a friend with someone who you got along for just a short time time palang, try to understand her/his drawbacks and give suggestions to improve it. Be honest to your pal and always tell the truth. Forgive each other easily and apologize if it is your fault. True and best of friendships starts there. Treat your friend as the best person of your life.
So, have a happy moment to you, dear friends, and to you, reading this. :)
So, have a happy moment to you, dear friends, and to you, reading this. :)
5 comments:
Oh My. Friends are being treasured. They are our mirror, source of strength and power, in short, friends, specially closest or best friend is LIFE. I don't understand why others sometimes ask for separation of ways from their friends when they see that they don't have the same views in life when in fact, that's not really the thing that will make someone worth as "best friend".
So true. Dahil kung ang pagiging magkaiba rin lang naman ang magiging basehan sa friendship, di sana wala akong matatawag na best friend. Truth, laging sinasabi sa kin ng best friend ko na, marami kaming pinagkaiba. sa pananaw sa mga bagay bagay, sobrang magkaiba kami, pero baki best of friends kami? you're right,che. respeto at bigayan lang.
tama. hindi kailangan na pareho kayo ng mga pananaw sa buhay o sa mga bagay bagay para maging best friend kayo. pang unawa, respeto. but that's not mean na aabusuhin mo rin ang isa. bigayan at pagmamahalan.
galing! inspired is me, again! :) thank you! so true! bakit nga kaya sasabihin pang "there's a need for a distance" pa kung pwede namang so close lang talaga, di ba? tapos sasaabihing i feel the same way. why did you asked for it pa? love your friends. they're your life.
You're so good po talaga in blogging! i don't know on how you transformed something something bad news, ideas and experiences into good thing and positive vibes. i wish we have the same mind and heart. i wish.
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